I’m coming to the end of my growing up years at Keyham and at 10 years of age the dreaded 11+ is rapidly approaching. Much depends on the outcome, you’re almost mentally drawn into the bright future at Grammar School or the rejection by failure and spending several years at the Secondary Modern with the “rough” kids. It may not have been intentional but that’s the scenario played at you regularly by Parents,Teachers, priests and nuns in their wish for you to succeed. Around this time Maureen, who by now had moved to London to work had met and about to marry Joe Holland and broad Scotsman from Renfrew. He had as a child been a good footballer but contracted a TB hip in his teens and spent a number of years in hospital ending up with a fused hipbone which would give him a permanent limp.
Whilst both had been brought up as Catholics the wedding was going to be at Holy Redeemer and I was going to serve the Mass.In truth I suspect they had both given up on religion but it kept both sets of parents happy and a good party afterwards. In any event it all went off very well and the reception at Victory Hall was well attended. I recall that in the build up to to wedding our only form of entertainment was the radio and a new sound filled the airwaves. Guy Mitchell was an American crooner who had a huge hit with “look at that Girl”. It was played so often I used to sing along until I could sing it word perfect. At the wedding a pianist was engaged to play background stuff with the occasional dance but for a ten years old it seemed boring. I asked to sing the song but the pianist didn’t know it or was too bothered about modern stuff. So I said I’d sing without the pianist. Someone found a mic and I was away. It went real well with a great big cheer and an en core later on. Something I have never forgotten first claim to fame in public.
But the dreaded exam could not be put off and eventually it happened. Some weeks later and we were told the outcome was imminent and that if you got a thick envelope you’d passed if you got a thin one you had failed. They certainly knew how to up the hype although we were quite the innocents in all this.Anyway a thick envelope I got and duly went home to ring Dad had taken the day off to await my homecoming,so important did they view this occasion. I couldn’t help but feel sorry for those with the thin envelope and the stigma of failure it implied,and I wondered then if there wasn’t a smell of snobbishness around the whole scenario,and how we would all be affected by this dreadful experience.
Author: flutterby
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